Wednesday, October 19, 2005

My thought of Relationships

It's really funny how guys treat their own girlfriends. Some can be super nice during courtships (probably for the first 2yrs of dating) and some can be a total jerk when they want to break-up with their girlfriends.
Can any of you guys tell me why do you have to be such a jerk when comes to facing your girlfriend...?
There are 2 kind or I should say 2 different type of scenario here...

First Scenario:
In a relationship... its either there's a loving, caring, kind or probably a guy of a women's dream... that has full of surprises and love to give. Where else their girlfriends are totally different personality or maybe in a shorter version slut.
Vice versa for the above scenario.
Good girlfriend... understanding, caring, loving and have loads of surprises for the boyfriend but unfortunately he doesn't seem to care much or notice all the little little things that the girlfriend has done and treat it as a norm or probably think, "So what.. she does all these things for me. Its useless...!" Imagine what would the girlfriend think...! All that she has done... are useless.

Second Scenario:
Boyfriend who is a playboy. Have lots of girlfriends back in high school, so as till today. Have a great girlfriend, someone who supports everything that he does and probably sacrifice a little here and there and not to mention... someone who will love him forever.
Why do such jerk deserve such good girlfriend???
Again vice versa for the above scenario...
Girlfriend is a B**** or a slut and bla bla bla... and etc...

OR maybe... there is a perfect couple. Both boyfriend and girlfriend are willing to give and take, share goodness and sadness together. "Till death do us part."
But its kinda hard to have such perfect couple who would surprise one another on special dates like birthdays, anniversaries or special holiday season. And both are willing to do anything just to make the other half HAPPY.

Sometimes...... I'm quite disappointed at relationships.... Don't seem to know what to do with it... and at times it can really change your mind, like being single again. Dangerous huh!

1 comment:

~ HöOVéRBélL a.k.a BéCKz ~ said...

Hey Angie,

i guess i understand u when u say u are quite dissapointed at relationship. I think this is the risk of having long distance relationship. But that is not the end dear, i also believe that when 2 person gets together, things will be better so perhaps u need to spend some time with your bf loh as u 2 are still quite near compared to mine.

I was having the same thought as u, i want to be single again, hahahaa... I was asking the Lord what should i do but when i'm in Germany, things go better and i begin to see the blessing of God in my relationship again.

This is due to the distance of our relationship. Sometimes we are just too far away and he don't know what i'm going through, i don't know what he is going through so is very hard. Give yourself some time and it will become better.

Glad that u share it out, is good to release it from your heart rather than keeping it to yourself only... hehehee...


beckz