Monday, May 29, 2006

Wedding Bells

Last couple of weeks ago... attended a church frens wedding. My bf came down to PJ to attend the dinner. One of my pastor was sharing the message on her holy matrimony. He was sharing this is funny article that I got from a fren thats been circulating thru the internet for quite some time.. The Husband Store . Come to think of it... some girls are just too greedy and want more from a husband. If the ladies want to get a husband that has all the qualities... (i.e do this, do that, rich & etc) which is quite hard to find. If the guy is rich, he could have the bad characters or not good looking. Not so rich but good looking and probably have abit of the good qualities.. or ok looking, good qualities, good character but not rich... I think you should be satisfied with that guy you have. Don't be too greedy. hehe.
Recently a fren ask me... "How do I know that my bf is the right guy for me?" I simply say... "As long as he accept me for who I am and don't mind my past, he'll be the right person." Being cheated by guys and keep falling in love or liking guys is not a good thing to be in. I rather God choose the right person and that's it. No more looking high and low, cos those are just temporarily, it'll fade off after awhile. And again she asked, "Do I have doubt about the relationship at the beginning?" I think my bf can help me answer this question... ^_^ We've pass thru lots of circumstances, loads till I don't remember them. Cried all nite till eyes swollen... really hard times. Well, some say... the more circumstances you go thru together, the more YOU TREASURE ONE ANOTHER. Which I believe it myself. I treasure my bf alot... just that... *sigh* at times... it doesn't work from both ways. The problem is.. I love Him more than he loves me... (that's what I felt).
So what do u think... is that relationship fair? Some gals would say, look for a guy that loves you more than you love him.. Is that true?? Does it make sense...? Or are we suppose to be equal... suppose to love each other more than anything else... (except God la.. God is always our first priority) So, what's the conclusion???

Thursday, May 11, 2006

my gosh...

Gosh! Haven't been updating my blog for ages... 2 months!!! It's been busy for this 2 months. Cos' working on the church bulletin.. extra work load apart from my normal job scope.
Though its busy but it gives you the feeling of satisfaction by the end of the day. Everyweek have to come out with new things. I'm not the editor of course.. but getting the source & pictures to suit the message for that week is not an easy thing.
Eversince I start doing the bulletin, I learn different thing at different time. There's a time, one of my colleague not around to help me think what photos to put up on the bulletin... so I asked another friend (over the MSN) who's into designin.. to get some input & new idea. Well, usually my photos taken from internet (free photos websites). So, this friend of mine, he's not into copyright photos... if you want the pictures, either you purchase it online or... take those pictures yourself. Quite strict in a way. But then, you can see that he's standing firm on what he say.
I learn something from him but at certain thing... its quite hard and don't want to depend on him so much since he's busy with his work. To be frank, I've been depending on him for the past few weeks.. not a good thing. ^_^
Anyway, been good doing bulletin.. maybe I'll try starting back YST (Youth Strait Times) but I have one prob... I don't have a proper source where I can input into YST, a place where the youth will get a proper spiritual food, knowledge of Bible and also short of youth who have this kind of passion to make it work. Don't want YST to die again.. been dead twice. hehe.